How to Eliminate Doubt From Your Aspirations

This is a great technique taught to me by my friendMaybe the new capability you need is not as easily
Dr. Will Horton. He calls this the Logical Levelsdefinable as a new career but instead requires a new
technique. This is how it works.mind-set or strategy. For instance, if losing weight is
Pick one of your most important goals.your goal, you’ll want to adapt new strategies
Imagine that on the floor on front of you are sixfor eating as we explored in the chapter on Setting
sequential squares in a straight line. This might lookNew Strategies. If getting out of debt is your goal,
like a large ladder lying on the ground or a verticalthen you will want to create a mind-set that spending
hopscotch pattern. Each square represents a requiredmoney, especially on interest, is very painful.
level in reaching your goal.Associate massive pain with spending money.
When you have all six levels in line, your life isAssociate massive pleasure with having money in the
congruent with your goal. As you will see, if any levelbank and a shrinking debt load.
is not aligned, your life will be incongruent with yourOnce you have defined the capabilities and
goal which will create conflict. Any incongruencedetermined that you have them or outlined a method
creates obstacles for moving towards your goal.of obtaining them, you can move to the next level.
In the first square in front of you is the Environment 
Level.IV. Belief Level
Take a step into the:Do your beliefs support this goal? What beliefs do
 you need in order to make this happen?
1. Environment LevelIf you believe that money is the root of all evil, then
Is your current environment conducive to reachingsetting a goal of saving $100,000 may be incongruent
your goal?with your belief. If it is your belief that in order to be
If you have to study, do you have an environmentattractive you must be wealthy, drive a cool car or
to do so? Do you have the books, CDs, manuals yoube in perfect shape, then setting a goal of meeting
need? If not, how can you get them? Who is yoursomeone special may be inhibited if you don’t
teacher? If you are trying to lose weight, stophave these attributes. If you believe that there are
smoking or drinking, have you eliminated thoseno opportunities for someone who has not finished
substances from your environment?high school, then your belief is going to seriously limit
Are the people in your life supportive of your goal?your possibilities if you didn’t graduate. Not only
Do they encourage you or try to discourage youwill your belief systems change over time, but you
from growing? If they are discouraging, is there acan also accelerate the change process and target
way to get them to allow you the space to try? Isspecific beliefs that you know are holding you back.
there a way to get away from them? Do you needDo you believe you deserve the rewards this goal will
to change your circle of friends?bring you? If no one in your family has ever
graduated, or made a six-figure income, or had a
Do you need to make changes to your environment?relationship with someone they believed to be
Can you create an environment that is supportive“out of their league,” or led a healthy life,
and conducive to you achieving this goal? If so, whatthen it may be hard for you to believe achieving any
changes do you need to make? How will you makeof these or your own goals is possible. It’s
them?important to understand that your ceiling of potential
When you have either determined that youris not determined by anyone else but you.
environment is conducive to reaching your goal orWhen your belief systems are aligned with your goal,
you have figured out what steps you have to takeyou may move to the next level.
to get it to that point move into the next Level. 
 V. Identity Level
II. Behavior LevelDoes your identity match that of the new version of
What behaviors do you need each day and are youyou that will reach this goal? Much of the inner
willing to do them?dialogue we engage in is with younger versions of
Are your patterns of behavior supportive forourselves. This helps us to understand how such
reaching your goal? Your patterns of thought andconversations can create massive self-doubt and
behavior define your life. Are you behaving in anegative patterns of behavior. For this exercise,
manner that is congruent with your goal? If study isimagine instead what it would feel like to have
required, are you studying? If applying a certain skill isalready accomplished your goal. Project your mind
required are you applying the skill? If abstinence of ainto the future and feel what it will feel like to be the
certain behavior pattern such as being drink, smokeperson who accomplished that. Rather than identify
or drug free is required, are you adhering to thatwith a version of you from the negative past, create
pattern? Are you doing what you need to do eachan identity of yourself having already accomplishing
day in order to reach your goal? If not, why not?this goal. This goal projection process is a great way
to kick start that process.
As an example, I had the idea for this book exactlyI did this exercise once with a woman during a
15-days ago. The title came to me at 2:30 in thehypnosis session. She had a goal that would make
morning Monday, February 12th. I set a goal to writeher a celebrity in her field which would generate
at least one chapter per day in order to have thesignificant income for her. When we got to this level,
book completed by the end of the month. In orderI asked her if her identity matched the identity of
to accomplish this goal, I instantly associated massivethe person who achieves the goal she wanted. She
pain with not writing. If I had any free time, I had tosaid, “No.” We then explored this issue and it
be in front of my MAC banging out chapters. Had Icame down to her being afraid that if she made
just “had an idea for a book” and left it atmore money than most men, she would not be
that, the book would never get written. The world isattractive to them. This was a beautiful blond athlete
full of great ideas, it’s the ability to take actionwhose’ identity was not matching that of the
and make an idea a reality that separates the bestperson who would reach her goal.
of us from the rest of us. As a side note, my firstI walked her through a scenario where she was
karate class was on February 12, 1974 and I gotarriving at an event on the arm of a man who was
married on February 12, 2000. I don’t know whatso insecure that he had to make more money than
that means but I think it’s interesting.his girlfriend or wife. I had her feel the feelings of
Some behaviors will need to be replaced. If you wantwhat it would be like to be with someone that weak.
to stop drinking then you will want to replace theI had her imagine what her future would be like under
pattern of stopping by the liquor store with a newthe control of someone else’s insecurities. I had
pattern of driving past it without stopping.her associate tremendous pain and disappointment
Are you rationalizing poor behaviors? Sometimes wewith this scenario.
get caught in an analyses paralysis where we spendI then had her walk through the same scenario but
more time thinking than doing. This level is all aboutwith a man who was confident and didn’t care
what you are doing not thinking or planning. This ishow much money she made. He only cared about
not about what you will do once you have reachedher and wanted the best for her. I had her imagine
your goal. This is about doing the behaviorswhat her future would be like with the sincere love
necessary right now to move you towards your goal.and support of someone like this. I had her associate
Sometimes clients will confuse this with thetremendous pleasure and joy with this scenario.
rationalization that, “I’ll do that once I getMy goal was to help her create the identity that
this done.” For instance, I’ll start exercisingwould support her goal. Did it work? It’s too
when I lose weight. I’ll stop smoking when I getearly to say, but when she emerged she said that
in better shape. I’ll approach a woman aftershe had not previously been aware of how money
I’ve lost ten pounds. I’ll start studying to getand men played into her identity. That alone is a
a new job after I get a raise at this one. All of thesepositive step.
examples are stall tactics to delay taking responsibilityWhen your identity matches that of you on the
for your actions.other side of your goal, you may move to the next
That is not acceptable behavior and you are toolevel.
smart to let your mind play those kinds of tricks on 
you. Let the rest of the people in the world deceiveVI. Spiritual Level
themselves, not you.If you believe in a higher power, does that higher
Once you have defined the behaviors and committedpower support this goal? With few exceptions, in
to doing them, you can move to the next square. Iforder for a spiritual belief to be aligned with a goal,
you can’t define them, do more research tothe goal has to be honest, ethical and positive for
figure them out. If you are not willing to commit toeveryone involved. For instance, if you goal is one of
doing them, your goal stops here.revenge on someone who you feel has wronged
 you, it would be a bit of a stretch to say that your
III. Capabilities Levelhigher power supports such a negative goal. Of
Do you have the capabilities required to reach yourcourse, the best revenge is success and that is
goal? In order to reach your goal, you may have tousually aligned with a higher power.
develop some new techniques, strategies, mind-sets,I like the Logical Levels because it really walks you
or skills. You may already have all that you need tothrough the various dynamics that will affect your
move forward or there may be something that youability to accomplish your goals. When these six
need to learn or adapt into your life. For instance, aelements are in place, there is nothing to stop you. If
friend of mine has decided she wants to become aany of them are out of place, you are bound to
court reporter. She has to learn how to use ahave a more difficult path towards improving your
steno-writer and the fascinating, but challenginglife.
methods of phonetically short hand skills. Once sheIn a sense, the Logical Levels work like a reality
learns the theory for the machine she has to buildcheck for your goal setting. They give dreams and
speed and accuracy up to 225 words per minute. Sheaspirations a concrete foundation and pathway to
spends a few hours per night working on her lessonsbecoming reality.
through a home study course.